“Hi, I’m Kavita – I’m going to jump right in, so brace yourself! I lost my boyfriend in a car accident when I was in my twenties. We had been together for 10 years, best friends for 13 years, and high school sweethearts – Yep, we even went to prom together.

Don’t worry, I’m OK 🙏🏽 And I’m honoured to share with you that I’m in a happy, loving, and healthy relationship today. But truthfully…

There was a time when I didn’t believe this could happen for me.

After the tragedy, all dating rules went out the window. My timelines were thrown out of whack. My life plans were forever changed.

Without knowing it at the time, I was no longer defined by – confined by – ‘what I should do’. I just wanted to be myself and do what was right for me – not for others.

And that’s just what I did.

And, I learned, this is how you find love ❤️

You find love when you slow down and stop trying to control everything. When you give yourself permission to block out the noise, to relax, to be you.

True love happens when you’re your true self. It’s crazy how you’ll start to attract people once you get comfortable being yourself and relaxing a little.

If you’re in your 30s or 40s, have lots of dating experience or none, are divorced or a single parent, it doesn’t matter. This is how it’s done, this is how love works. And it’s available to each and every one of us.”